Frequent Questions and other information you may want to know:

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Q. Why don't you have a phone number on your website?

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A. Too many male callers and time wasters. I will give you a contact number when I have vetted you as being serious about an appointment.

 

Q. Why did you choose to do Sensual massage instead of staying within the bounds of a normal massage practice?

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     A. Several reasons that all culminated around the same time about 7 years ago:

   

1. I found that even from early stage of my practice some of my clients wanted me to work with their erogenous  zones during massage and I was conflicted with that for some time till I had a particular dream one night and I made the decision to fully commit my practice to a include a sensual massage element.

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     2. There are so many ordinary massage places you can go to and every day they seem to be springing up all over place. I saw some of what was on offer and knew that a safe place was needed where a woman can go to connect with an experienced, professionally trained massage male (and eventually female) therapist and feel sexually aroused and not be concerned about whether the massage therapist will attend to her inner most needs or not. 

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            3. I  enjoy massaging the female body form in all of its many aspects and nuances. This is my ideal vocation. I can allow myself to relax and connect at a deeper level with clients instead of struggling with my own sexual energies. The ebb and flow.

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               4. I think that it is unfair that men have so many places that they can go for sensual fulfillment. It disturbs my sense of balance and social justice.

I believe a place is needed where women feel safe to explore sensuality through massage.

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5. I believe that there is a great deal of practical healing is needed in society on a deeper level.

                        Sensual massage is a form of sexual healing and is a very powerful tool. Many of my clients have reported huge changes that they never expected would happen. 

                            Some have moved away from unhealthy relationships, dead end jobs, and even given up negative compulsive behaviors.   

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Q. What if I have a partner who doesn't know my needs, should I still come and see you?

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A. It's a difficult one to answer. From my own experience keeping secrets from a partner can add an additional unspoken weight to the relationship. Perhaps a conversation with your partner before you see me is better than one that comes after.  It is really up to your particular individual circumstance. 

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Q. Do I have to be naked?

A. No definitely not, you have to be comfortable that is the main thing so you wear or not wear for comfort to happen. If you request I can use towels for modesty.

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*Q Do you do happy endings?

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A." Happy endings" is another term for orgasm at the end of a massage session originating in male culture.

The answer is complex, yes if that is what you would like to focus on and are clear in what you require to reach this or are happy to explore more orgasmic ways.

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Some practices are about building the sexual energy and tension to increase orgasmic pleasure for release at another time or using this energy in other parts of your life.

This I call

"Contained or held sexual tension"

Please let me know if you have either practice in mind.

Contained tension or release.

 

Please Note* Bringing you to a satisfied orgasmic state is my intension. In my experience every woman has a different set of processes to achieve this, and some have never achieved it.

 

I am adept at reading the path of your own process and am intuitive to adjust to what you may need.  Communication is key here.

 

This as you may imagine is not an exact science so some discovery on both sides generally takes place.

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Q. I am unsure whether a sensual massage is for me.

Can I just have a normal massage with you and see how it goes?

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A. Certainly. I am always bound by your needs and your pace. 

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Q. Why do you have so many conditions to see you?

 

A. I have been doing sensual massage for quite some years now. Most of my time in the beginning was wasted by men either trying to get an appointment or find out where my clinic was.

(Some of my clients are married or are with a partner)

At the time of my old clinic, a massage parlour (brothel) up the road from me was fire bombed.

 

We live in an intolerant and weird society.

I am careful for your safety and mine. 

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* Q. Would you teach me Sensual Massage?

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A.Yes I do have classes in Sensual massage

Minimum booking of two people one needs to be female. 

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 * Q Am I allowed to touch my therapist?

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A. This is up to me so please enquire in the questionnaire or at the beginning or during  your appointment if you feel inclined.

Generally this session is about your pleasure but I understand that there is also great pleasure gained by touch.

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Q.* I would like you to  fuck me,  Can you do that?

A. ​​No, I find that these situations are best served by using a strap on penis (with condom) rather than the traditional penetration.

Condoms sometimes break!

Also I don't come (Cum, ejaculate) as a personal practice.

Retention of my jing (semen) is very special and sacred to me and I find that the possibility and pleasurable sensations created by being inside you are best avoided. Currently I am on a quest for 24 month retention after a successful 12 months attained recently. 

Having said all that, we can talk about it. You have to have a strong  grounded emotional sense of self to go here.

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Q. There are guys out there that do this for free, do you charge?

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A. A couple of reasons

1. I believe the exchange of money is important as it creates an emotion barrier for client and therapist.

2. The people who don't charge only think they know what they are doing. 

 When it is said they have experience that is a code word for I am not qualified. I will show you my qualifications at our first appointment. They were hard earned. 

I am creating a place where ladies can go and experience sensuality at whatever level they wish in a safe and relaxed environment.

 

The skills I use come from many years of training, self discipline and learning what my clients want and tailoring my style for them. (You).

 

3. I am a professional. Hire a plumber, see how they charge?

I am much more fun!

Look around the broad spectrum of massage therapists.

What I charge is deliberately minimal.

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* Q. Do you want / need me to reciprocate?

A. No, reciprocation is definitely not required at any time.

All I ask is that you let me know if I am working in a way that you are enjoying.

I want you to relax into what I am doing and concentrate on the sensations.

Although...

If you feel you would like to touch me and I give you consent, be aware that this may take your attention away from what you are experiencing or perhaps it will enhance it.

I leave this up to you.

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 ​​* Q. I want to surprise my wife / girl friend for her birthday! ​​​​

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A. Strictly no  enquiries or bookings  on behalf of another person. Accept if language is a barrier.

!No surprises for anyone!

If you are making an enquiry regarding Sensual Massage classes I need to hear (voice) from the female party to that session to go ahead.

I've had a partner in the same room at one time and it was a just a very uncomfortable massage experience. 

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You need to book a Massage Classes session. 

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*Q​. Do you see many clients / are you very busy?

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A. I consider what I do is highly specialised and I understand that only a small amount of the population are ready and in the right space for what I do. 

I deliberately keep a low profile as I prefer to work with quality and have reserved my energy for your session.

Only my clients know what I do.

Understandably there also are not many referrals  for my type of service.

massage on a whole has suffered from the influx of the phenomena I call

 "Mall Massage"

also the influx of "Thai Massage" parlors springing up.

I am also busy with many other projects.

Booking in advance is best

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Q. Do you keep a record of my sessions with you?

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1. Yes I do. As a professional massage therapist I keep a record of your time with me. this is in the form of a Word  document secured (encrypted with AxCrypt) safe on my computer.

This record shows your contact information,

(If I need to contact you again. I hate spam too!  I just need to keep my clients informed of any changes to the website, moving ect)

What your needs where, how you felt after the session and what changes you may have experienced between sessions.

These records help to remember what stage you were up to if there is a large gap of time in between sessions.

All of your time with me is strictly confidential and secure.

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*Q. Do you give oral pleasure?

A. Yes, though I do reserve my choices in this on a client to client basis.

 Health wise I get regular sexual Health check ups.

Request it on the massage options form and we will talk about it.

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Q. What if I see you at the shops or in public?

A.  I will completly ignore you. Who was that questions are difficult.

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​Q. Do you get regular health checks?

A. Yes I get a regular check up with my local sexual health clinic

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Please feel free to add any question or comment you may find helpful in the contact section at the end this website.

 I will continue to add to the FAQ give you as much scope as you need to make an informed decision regarding receiving sensual massage in its many forms.